A lesson learnt for life.Dear Mrs. gave us a peptalk this morning. And she gave us an article which came out in the papers this morning about babies being born out of wedlock and half of them are Malays. She asked about how we felt about the article (nothing racist). I said I was disappointed and frankly, it's embarrassing.
First of all, they come from a religion which forbids intimacy. It's sad they're not a strong believer. And personally, I think this made me repent, somewhatt. I mean, to be a better believer.
Second of all, they're putting a bad image on themselves.
Third of all, it's not the mother or the father who is so-called "suffering" but the child. What will happen to it during and after growing stage?
I am in no position to say that I am perfect. Seriously, I am not. But to do all this, it's getting wayy out of hand.
And Mrs. said that she'd be "terribly, terribly, terribly shocked" if her daughter were to come home and say, "Mummy, I'm pregnant." I think if my daughter did that, I would faint and hope to remain unconscious. But then again, at this point, I guess this is where your daughter need you most. oh well, Olevels is coming. Shouldn't be thinking about this. But it is something to be reflected about. Right?
Oh, Madam said during Malay lesson. Your future family-in-law gives your family thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars just for their son to marry you because you're worth it. And if you do it now or before you're married, you're giving yourself off for free. Wasted, kan?
And this is the time where you should really think, do you really love yourself?
xoxo
5:39 PM
